From the monthly archives:

October 2008

Are you showing signs of addiction to texting: “How addiction” to texting can become a major problem; Phone addiction can in-fact evolve  into “addiction abuse”, texting mobile could result in suffering from a mental illness; Read on to find out if you are showing signs of addiction to texting:

“Texting is fast becoming the way we communicate. Young or old, we are all getting busy with our thumbs”.

Some psychiatrists are diagnosing obsessive texting as a mental illness. According to an article in the ‘American Journal of Psychiatry’, texting too much during the day could probably cause you to develop a texting addiction.

There are four signs of addiction to texting:

  • Excessive use (neglect day to day activities)
  • Withdrawal ( feeling depressed when not accessible)
  • Tolerance (over texting)
  • Negative repercussion ( social isolation)

Various market research companies also reckon that young people under the age of 25  will spend close to £3.5 billion on text messaging, this year alone.

“Something that was once convenient has now become an addiction”.

The American Heritage Dictionary defines ‘addiction’ as “The condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or involved in something.”

Texting addiction can be deemed as a sign of infidelity?

So… how do you STOP?

1.  “Quitting a long-standing habit is hard enough. So make sure you can get positive reinforcements from friends and family”. “Set yourself boundaries; limit the amount of time you spend texting.

2. “Animal trainers have long known that the way to train or retrain an animal to do something is by giving them a small reward when they have done well. This theory works well with humans as well. So give yourself frequent rewards”.

3.   “Substitute a bad habit for a healthy new one”.

4.   Self-motivation is vital to quitting a bad habit or an addiction. Do not start trying to quit a behavior or addiction because everyone else wants you to, “You must want to quit for YOURSELF”.

5.   “Reduce your stress levels, exercise more, practice yoga or meditation. These can all be learned via video/ DVD”.

If you would like to know more click on the link to my other post; “My addiction to the internet” which has some effective E-Book sites that will be of help to you.

“I am interested in knowing your experiences with texting addiction; what motivates you to text and how you tried to STOP or eventually managed to STOP”.

Dawn Pugh psychotherapist

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Marriage Counselor

by Dawn Pugh

I thought I would offer you some humour today, I know you will appreciate.

A husband and his wife went to see a male marriage counselor.

The counselor firstly asked the wife “what was her perception of the problem?”

The wife replied “My husband does not show me any affection, I do not feel loved, and I feel neglected”

At this point the counselor walked over to the wife and kissed her passionately. He then turned to the husband and said “this is what your wife needs 3 times a week”

The husband responded “I can drop her off Mondays and Wednesdays but I can’t on Friday because I play golf ” … :-)

 

This has been a light hearted joke, but on a more serious note marriage counselors and marriage and family therapists are extremely helpful in keeping families and relationships together.

You can find out more, click on the link  marriage and family counselors

Dawn Pugh Psychotherapist

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Treatment of Obsessive Disorder in Children

October 23, 2008

Treatment of Obsessive Disorder in Children. Compulsive and Obsessive OCD symptoms in children has up until recently not been evidence based. OCD in children needs to be diagnosed earlier rather than later due to the debilitating effects, if carried through to adulthood.
Few research studies have focused on treatments specifically geared to children suffering with obsessive [...]

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Could Cosmetic Surgery Cost You, Your Marriage?

October 20, 2008

Could cosmetic surgery cost you, your marriage? Plastic surgery breast implants, a cosmetic procedure, that is a costly act and one that could cost more than you bargained for. Apart from the financial expenditure, reports say that the cost of cosmetic surgery especially, plastic surgery breast implants, could lead to a marital breakdown.
Specialist law firms [...]

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Symptoms of Anxiety Phobia

October 16, 2008

Symptoms of Anxiety Phobia: Early recognition of anxiety symptoms is the key to a successful outcome; Feelings of apprehension, fear, worry, and, the feeling that something bad is going to happen. Signs of anxiety, can be, tension in the body, feeling on edge, and avoiding certain situations that evoke these feelings. Anxiety causes are a mixture of mental and [...]

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The Truth about Infidelity

October 15, 2008

The Truth about Men relationships and infidelity: Whether it is a casual relationship or a full blown affair. Betrayal affects trust relationships. One of the main ingredients for a good healthy relationship is to be open and honest, sadly this marriage communication is not priority for lots of unhappy couples. The average couple spends only 12 minutes [...]

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New Beginnings at 40 years old

October 14, 2008

New Beginnings at 40 years old: Does life begin at 40 years old or is it a myth. A recent study revealed that it’s the time when most people usually achieve what they want, be that a career change, new and fulfilling relationships, hobbies, interests or travel.
But it seems that many people, actually associate growing old with being [...]

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Children Disorder Psychiatric Drug Treatment

October 13, 2008

This weekend saw The Annual conference of the International Center for the Study of Psychiatry and Psychology. The main emphasis was on  the “Effective Therapeutic Approaches to Emotional Suffering: Recovering the Soul of Psychotherapy.”
One of the main presenters was Lawyer, Jim Gottstein, who once brought a lawsuit to the Alaskan Governor ’Sara Palin’ and her state. Jim now under [...]

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Impact Economic Effects on Suicide Statistics

October 10, 2008

Impact Economic Effects on Suicide Statistics. Suicide statistics rise with the effects of economic depression. What is recession?  Recession 2008:  According to Wikipedia: The definition of a recession is;  ”a significant decline in economic activity spread across the economy, lasting more than a few months, usually affecting; real income, employment, industrial production, and wholesale-retail sales.” A sustained [...]

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Legal Drug Addiction and Treatment Substance Abuse

October 9, 2008

Drug addiction and treatment substance abuse happens quite legally. Prescription medicines are very addictive drugs. I have put together some interesting videos for your perusal.
Oxycodone is a strong opioid analgesic (pain killer) drug with a high potential to cause physical and psychological dependence. Once the addictive problems of heroin and morphine became well known, it [...]

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